Jeffrey and the Gigantic Gym Convict

My old pal, Jeffrey, called the other day.  Jeffrey’s more than a pal, actually.  He masqueraded as my son for several years back in the early ’90s in Long Beach (CA, not NY).  Oh, Gawd.  It’s a long story, but I am urged to push forth and present this: Much Needed but Hardly Relevant Background Information … Read more

Pride

Well, it’s a milestone for me and Gay Pride celebrations everywhere. This weekend was the grandaddy of them all, right here in San Diego. People from all over the world come to be part of this celebration. It is the single largest festival of the year in San Diego. There are some events that are bigger, … Read more

Marriage

So this is the year of the gay wedding. Bravo. The gender-bias of our marriage code has been one of the greatest inconsistencies of the American journey in recent years. So some day soon there won’t be a schism between ‘You should marry who you love,’ and ‘Marriage means one man and one woman.’ Some … Read more